Here's the scenerio.
Kid gets awarded for student of the month in a huge school assembly with certificate and pencil in hand and loud cheers from the crowd. Kid gets off of bus to be greeted by over excited parents with a wrapped gift and decides to open it in front of all the kids at the bus stop. My kid looks over at me with tears welling up in his eyes and asks, "Why does he get a present and I don't?", granted he too got the student of the month award as well.
Don't you think it's a bit much? They could've at least did the gift thing at home, not in the middle of the bus stop so that the entire neighborhood of kids (can watch him tear open his huge box of Star Wars Legos) and ask why they didn't get a gift for being student of the month.
What is going on?! I'm all about rewards when deserved but to be rewarded for being rewarded seems a bit much. Sounds like a bad case of
over-indulgence. So with that said, I told Curtis it was great and exciting that he got student of the month and that he worked very hard to be honored for it. And that we were very, very proud of him. And just because he was rewarded for something doesn't always mean he'll get a present for it. An assembly and an award in front of the whole school should be a celebration in itself. He sighed and after 5 minutes of sulking he went off to play with his brother and sister.